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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:30

How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why are men ridiculously delusional in the women they want/approach? I'm not a troll. This is a real question. Why does a fat, pot bellied, unkempt, balding, stupid (ergo poor) man, tell a woman above his league that she isn't hot enough for him?

That's it for today.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself:

Have you made a female relative or friend squirt?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can cheating be a result of not truly loving or caring for someone, or is it sometimes just a spur of the moment decision?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What are your political and economic beliefs? How did you form them, especially in comparison to those who hold opposing views?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why have cell phones, the internet, and reality TV turned the world into a toilet, as this has not advanced us in any way?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Procrastinates a lot.